Some guidelines for the first time clients in the adult entertainment

If you have never booked an escort before, or have had any uncertainties/ disappointments in the past, or wish to know how to get the best service and response from your companion, it is very important for you to read on:

Start at the beginning

Hiring a 'sex professional', whatever the level or gender ,is the same as hiring any other professional, like a doctor, lawyer, or mechanic. You pay them money for a service. It doesn't matter what the service is: if you're nice to the professional, you generally get a better result than if you aren't. Treat adult entertainers the same way you treat other professionals. And like other professionals, these people will treat you as a valued client, and may even become 'friends' on a business level. They look forward to see you again, the same way any other professional likes to see their good clients.

The escorts make a living at their jobs just like anyone who have other jobs. So yes, they are doing it for the money. But that's just their occupation, which most peple choose because they enjoy it. When you hire a mechanic to fix your car, the mechanic is doing it for the money too, but he no doubt enjoys his work. It's the same thing. Your mechanic may be your friend, and he may enjoy working on your car because you're a good client. The same kind of relationship can be established with your adult entertainer. If you become a regular client, you will get to know each other and know what you like to do together -- and you will enjoy it more. Your escort will generally enjoy most of her work, otherwise she wouldn't be doing it.

When telephoning or e-mailing

When you call or email : Be friendly and polite, It is not a good idea to start bragging about the details concerning your incredible sexual prowess,your elephantine manhood or your detailed, erotic fantasy .Be clear and ask for details such as :

availability,location etc,and state clearly what type of services you are looking for,but be respectful of their privacy and their time.

Making smutty telephone calls,sending pornographic e-mails and sms is not funny or clever... it is infantile and a waste of your time. You will not get the response you are seeking ,and your phone number and email address will be blacklisted . If you're really into this kind of thing, you're not the type of client most escorts interested in dealing with.

Be aware that if they are not comfortable talking to you on the phone ,very unlikely they are going to see you in person.

Don't call or e-mail unless you are genuinely interested , to save both of you time,check out these details from their website (if they have one) before you call :

*The fees : NEVER HAGGLE OVER Fees... if the advertised rates are more than what you are willing to pay ,then there is no point calling and try to negotitate by saying that the price is beyond what you had in mind, move on to someone else who has a more acceptable price range to your budget.However,don’t shop on prices alone. "You get what you pay for" is alive and well in this industry. Politeness costs nothing,trying to negotiate fees will result in less polite treatment.

*Working Hours : If they don't have these in the website, ask them what time and day they are available and how much notice they need.

*Photos/Physical descriptions : You have seen the photos and web descriptions,there's no point to ask for descriptions again.

*Services provided : It is obvious the service would involve sexual contact,it generally covers protected oral and penetrative sex. However it is important to remember that the more you discuss your needs , the more fulfilling the experience will be for you. Escorts are just that - escorts, and not psychics.

If you wish to have something unusual or have a fantasy and fetish to be fulfilled in the service (eg: "golden shower","cross dressing", "role playing" , "foot fetish " etc ), let your escort know before you make the booking , so she is prepared for your requests.Every escort has their own limits and boundries,If she cannot provide what you are looking for, she should let you know ;and you should move on and continue your search . Give honesty, expect it in return.

Before the booking...

Cleanliness

Do not be offended if she ask you to shower on your arrival .This is a common routine most escorts practice with their clients. If your escort is visiting you,have a shower before she arrives.

When having shower - pay particular attention to wash your private parts ,or any body parts that you want your escort to touch, kiss, lick and sniff ;),

and clean your mouth and teeth... the chances of your companion being a willing participant in erotic games with you is directly proportional to your level of personal hygiene. She will unlikely to let you kiss her if your breath smells like 4 week old milk.

Have a shave/ trim

The face - Not many escorts class a "sanding-down" by a five o'clock shadow as erotic foreplay.

The pube - Try to give your pubic hair a trim or shave if you can - there's nothing sexy about getting stray pubic hair in the mouth during oral sex.

Arrive on time

If you arrived too early before the agreed time,you can try to give her a call and see if she is ready to see you,if not, please respect that,go grab a coffee or take a walk and come back on the agreed time.If you were running late,telephone her as soon as possible,and let her know that you will still make it.

When you arrive

Money

Have the payment ready in cash, unless otherwise agreed. You already know how much it is going to cost for the time you wish to stay , so to spare both of u any embarrassment, make sure the amount is correct and automatically handle it UPFRONT.

Never try a bit of last minute bartering... the rates are set and agreed before you made the booking .This kind of last minute bartering will only make the situation awkward ;and potentially unpleasant treatment from your escort.

Your escort prefer not having to ask you for the money first ,be a gentleman and offer to pay for the time you wish to spend with her ,soon after the initial introduction.You may feel a little awkward,but this will only last for 10 seconds if you have them ready and get it done quickly.

Conversation Dos' and Don'ts

Detailed , personal questions should be a no-go area,they are with you under a business arrangement, so don't expect them to tell you their life history or innermost secrets in the first meeting ... unless they feel absolutely comfortable with you (this would usually only happen if you eventually became their regular client).

Under no circumstances ask:

• Do you have a boyfriend / partner ? What does your partner think about your work?
• Can you still enjoy sex with your partner since you do it all the time with clients?
• How long have you been doing this?
• Do your parents know about your job?
• How much money do you make?
• How long are you going to do this for ?
• Why don't you just marry a rich man and forget about this work ?
• How many clients do you see in one night ? etc...etc...

These are very personal and patronising questions, so don't ask them, unless you are looking for an equally embarrassing questions in return,such as :

• What does your wife/ girlfriend think of this?
• How long have YOU been doing this?
• Does your children know you pay for sex?
• Does your boss know you're here?
• How much money have you spent on escort services ?
• Why don't you go home to your partner and forget about this service?
• How many sex workers have you been with?

So , you see the flipside .....

The Nitty Gritty...

If you changed your mind during the booking and insist on services that she does not provide... such as unprotected sex ...you will only be ruining her mood and resulting an unpleasant service.Do not force your companion to do what she doesn't want to do.

Ask her how she likes to be touched. Regardless of your experience, everybody is different. The first sign of a great lover is a considerate one. Ignoring her needs makes you an ignorant, and thus second-rate lover! Like everything in life, never assume you know it all. If you cannot be shown something new, your mind is closed. We should never stop learning, even in the bedroom!

If you find an escort that you like and there's chemistry between the two of you , the sex usually gets better. You get to know each other better and know what each other like. Like any relationship, the more time you spend together the better you get at it. After a few sessions with the same person you become what is called a "regular". Escorts prefer to see regulars because they know what to expect, and know you're not a troublemaker.

Sometimes your first experience with a service isn't what you expected. You may have been too nervous or emotional . You may not have known exactly what you wanted. Maybe you couldn't perform or orgasm. That's not unusual, especially the first time. It takes a while for some people to learn how to have sex with a total stranger. A certain part of sex is learned behavior and sometimes you have to try a few times to get it right. But once you get into it you'll find it's well worth it and you'll be able to do things you never dreamed of.

Time Line

Remember that it is not just the escort's responsibility to keep an eye on the time. If you agreed upon an hour, then remember that that is from the time you agreed to arrive, not the time you got into bed/out from the shower.If you arrived late, you are costing her time .You may not like your escort to be a clock-watcher,but be fair - you are paying by the hour,and they earn their living by the hour,if you wish them to stay with you longer,offer to extend the booking and of course, the money,but please respect that she may have pre-booked appointments waiting or have other engagements.

Close of Play...

Don't offer to buy her a drink/ go on a dinner date / to the cinema, and expect her to do so without payment. You may have got on very well, and she may genuinely like you, but business is business and she will prefer it to be kept that way. As mentioned above, she is like any other professional. Ever thought of what would happen if you asked your lawyer to draw up some extra contracts for you, but can he do it in his own time, at home, for free? No. Would your accountant give a few hours' advice free? No. So don't confuse the issue. Escorts are the same, but you pay for her company and time rather than her legal or numerical knowledge & time.

"The difference between sex for money and sex for free, is that sex for money often costs a lot less... "